ents, and eventually some long-awaited success, whereas pees have been nearly mastered for months due to consistency of a reward system and being cognizant of his bladder at all times. That means physically taking him to the potty systematically (first thing in the morning and in between daily transitions) rather than only waiting for him to give us the cue. As for a reward system, small treats like Smarties, Rockets, Real Fruit gummies and stickers are readily available beside every bathroom in the house. One of the most important things to reinforce I find, is genuine excitement for every successful go. Now, he seems to look forward to impressing us with pee’s, and I can’t wait for the day where he can freely excuse himself for number twos, too.
We have for the most part gone about our days without diapers or pull-ups, and I would agree that in order for healthy progression, children need to feel the discomfort of accidents without the protection of a familiar diaper, however, I do believe that life should carry on as usual for the parents, and if that means putting on pull-ups intermittently to avoid the risk of a public accident, or to simply allow them to relieve themselves comfortably, then that sounds preferable to me.
Over the long weekends, we have spent a good amount of time attempting the “cold-turkey” technique, where they are naked all day and you race them to the potty quickly, with some success here and there. These times have mostly resulted in extreme soiling down bare pant legs, in and around the toilet and tub, and truth be told, cleaning up after these episodes have been some of the foulest and most frustrating moments of mom-life to date. I’m talking up to five baths and no clean clothes in one given day. Frustrating because these littles can be so advanced in some ways, talking full sentences and smart as a whip, yet unable to make a successful trip to potty to relieve themselves.
Nevertheless, I still prefer the inconsistency of accidents over the longer-term than sacrificing the ability to leave house for days and seemingly expedite a fast-track course that just might not be compatible for every little one. And honestly, based on the feedback he’s given us maybe he’s just not ready for the intensity of cold-turkey training, but he’s getting closer every day and we’ve done it our way, and that to me is just A-okay!
